'Before the 90 Days' Magda Sends a Message to Joe About Intimate Relations (Exclusive Clip)

Before the 90 Days and 90 Day Fiancé both have a host of hurdles, but not every issue that comes up between couples is exclusive to just the franchise.

A discussion between stars Magda and Joe that’s featured in an upcoming episode is a perfect example of that and Parade is sharing an exclusive first look at the rather relatable lovers’ quarrel.

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Whether you’re swiping for love or in a committed relationship, discussions about expectations in the bedroom have likely come up. Those who have been with their partner for a while have also likely chatted about ways they believe would keep the “spark” in their relationship alive, fresh and ever-lasting–and that’s exactly what happened between Magda and Joe, except it was a little more emotional. 

The clip begins with the couple waking up and cuddling during their “first morning together,” and while all looks well as the two smile and giggle while cozying up together, Joe admits that he “didn’t love waking up separately” after Magda requested they sleep in different beds.

“It felt a little bit like we were roommates last night,” he added, explaining that he “obviously rather stay with her” than not at all, “But it’s I feel like both of us are still working on building trust that, you know, it’s going to take some time for us to work things out and for her to feel comfortable.”

As the two chat, Magda shares that while she “missed [Joe] a lot” during the night, she would prefer to keep the sleeping arrangement like this until the two take the next step towards marriage.

Joe, who lives in West Palm Beach, Florida, appeared to be caught off guard by the request, repeating her statement as if to make sure he heard her correctly. “After the proposal?!” 

“Yeah,” Magda said, doubling down on her stance. “The ring is ‘I choose you for the rest of my life, I want to be with you.’ And then we can have sex and I will be only yours.”

Joe appeared unsure about whether or not he agreed with her perspective on pre-marital sex, telling Magda, “I don’t know about that,” before voicing his own concerns. “What if we’re not sexually compatible?”

Magda tried to assure him that it “wasn’t the most important thing,” but Joe disagreed, growing frustrated about the “pressure” he now feels has been placed on their sex life. 

“[It] definitely put like some doubt in my mind, like does she want to just marry me to be in the US?” Joe said later on in a confessional. “Or like does she actually have feelings and want to be intimate?”

To find out how the couple goes about navigating their very different views on intimacy, tune in to the newest episode of Before the 90 Days airing on Sunday, Nov. 24, at 8 p.m. ET via TLC.

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