‘Let Them’ Theory Is Nothing New
What? The “Let Them” theory is a new trend on TikTok started by author and motivational speaker Mel Robbins. The theory is simple: Whenever something occurs or someone says something that is out of your control, don’t stress out about it. Let them.
So What? Although there’s certainly nothing wrong with this concept, it’s also not exactly new. Really, it’s more of a repackaging of “turn the other cheek” from Matthew 5 mixed with Philippians 4:6’s, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.”
Now What? Social media is absolutely chock-full of motivational quotes, self-help guidelines and routines to help people life their “best lives.” But it’s important to talk to our teens about the truths already outlined in the Bible. While new ideas may not necessarily be bad, we should always align ourselves with God’s Word and His perfect plan for our lives before hopping on any social media trend.
‘Grandma’ Hobbies Are Boosting Teens’ Mental Health
What? “‘Grandma’ or ‘granny’ hobbies refer to activities that have historically been popular among older generations,” according to Parents. They can include knitting, scrapbooking, baking, book clubs or even bird-watching.
So What? As teens become more aware of the negative effects social media can potentially have on their mental health, they are increasingly seeking non-screen activities. Studies show that people who regularly engage in hobbies tend to have fewer negative emotions and less stress. And grandma hobbies in particular offer a creative outlet that allows adolescents to relax while still being creative and productive, says psychologist and author Lisa Damour.
Now What? Parents puts it perfectly: “If your teen expresses interest in a ‘grandma’ hobby, encourage them to try it. These screen-free hobbies are linked to plenty of benefits, including connection with peers, greater life satisfaction, stress reduction, and more. And who knows—they might find a passion that sticks with them through life!”
What? Meta is testing a new feature on Instagram that allows users to “dislike” or “downvote” comments on a post.
So What? A Meta spokesperson told New York Post that the feature should “help people better control their Instagram experience and what they’re seeing on the app.” However, many users are protesting this change, noting that it will more likely promote cyberbullying or even just make users feel sad or insecure about their posts.
Now What? If you’re worried about the potential for bullying, Instagram allows users to disable all comments on their individual posts and stories. Remind your teen that they should only exhibit the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23) in their social media interactions. And when in doubt, follow the Golden Rule from Matthew 7:12.
