From Not-So-Bad Guys to 'Lunch' Dates: Billie Eilish's Rumored New Boyfriend and Dating History

Billie Eilishdoesn’t want to make her private life a commodity for public consumption.

“I definitely want to keep [relationships] private,” she said in a September 2020 interview with Capital Breakfast with Roman Kemp. “I’ve had relationships and kept them private, and even the ones that I’ve had, with the tiny amount that I’ve let the world see, I regret. I think about the people that have made their relationships public, and then they break up, and it’s like, ‘What if it goes bad?’”

Most recently, she’s been seen spending a lot of time with her rumored boyfriend, Nat Wolff—though she does try to keep her dating life quiet. In October 2024, she told Vogue with some frustration, “… I’m never talking about my sexuality ever again. And I’m never talking about who I’m dating ever again.”

Here are all of Billie Eilish’s relationships and her dating history that we know of—including the Wolff brother she was recently spotted kissing.

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Is Billie Eilish in a relationship?

Billie Eilish is rumored to be in a relationship with actor and musician Nat Wolff. In June 2025, the pair were seen kissing while hanging out in Venice, Italy, per People. They first sparked dating rumors in March when they were spotted leaving the iHeartRadio Music Awards together and then bar-hopping in New York City the following week, according to Page Six.

Nat and his brother Alex Wolff opened for Eilish on her Hit Me Hard and Soft tour in 2024. That same year, Nat appeared in Eilish’s self-directed music video for “Chihiro.”

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Who are Billie Eilish’s past boyfriends?

Billie Eilish has been in several confirmed relationships and a few secret ones as well.

Jesse Rutherford

Eilish was previously in a public relationship with Jesse Rutherford, lead singer of the band The Neighbourhood and 11 years her senior—and boy, was she proud of this one at the time. The pair reportedly first started dating around October 2022.

She told Vanity Fair that November, “Yeah, I do [have a boyfriend now], and it’s really cool, and I’m really excited, and I’m really happy about it. I managed to get my way to a point in my life … where I not only was known by a person that I thought was the hottest f–king f–ker alive, but pulled his ass … Are you kidding me? Can we just—round of applause for me. Thank you! Jesse Rutherford, everyone! I pulled his ass—all me! I did that shit. I locked that motherf–ker down.”

They even walked the red carpet twice (a first for Eilish and a partner), but confirmed in May 2023 that they’d split after roughly seven months together. She later told fans that she and Rutherford were “very very good friends only” and that he was her “homie forever.”

She’s had other relationships as well.

Matthew Tyler Vorce

Eilish was first linked to actor Matthew Tyler Vorce in April 2021, when he was 29 to her 19. Neither of them spoke directly about dating one another, but when they apparently split in May 2022, Vorce wrote in an Instagram Story (via Harper’s Bazaar), “Nobody cheated on anyone. Relationships end. Simple as that. Creating rumors and LYING on the internet is dangerous.”

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Brandon “Q” Adams

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The exact timeline of Eilish’s relationship with Brandon “Q” Adams isn’t known, but he appeared in her Apple TV documentary The World’s a Little Blurry. They began the documentary dating and ended it with their split.

“I just wasn’t happy. I didn’t want the same things he wanted and I don’t think that’s fair for him,” Eilish explained in the film. “I don’t think you should be in a relationship super excited about things that the other person couldn’t care less about. I don’t think that’s fair to you. I don’t think that’s fair to him. There was just a lack of effort. I was literally like, ‘Dude, you don’t have enough love to love yourself, so you can’t love me, dude. And you don’t. You think you do.'”

She added, “I do love him, though, which made it harder. I’m not over him; I didn’t find someone else. I didn’t stop having love for him. I just spent time away from him for a little bit, and I was like, ‘Wow! I’m missing so much because I’m worried about you all the time, and I don’t want what you want, and you don’t want what I want.’ I don’t want to fix him. I can’t fix him. I tried.”

Did Billie Eilish kiss Quen Blackwell?

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At Coachella 2024, fans were sent into a tizzy when Eilish was caught kissing influencer Quen Blackwell.

The smooch came right around the time she confirmed to Rolling Stonethat she had been attracted to and in love with women for most of her life.

“I’ve been in love with girls for my whole life, but I just didn’t understand—until, last year, I realized I wanted my face in a vagina,” Eilish said.

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How many relationships has Billie Eilish had?

Eilish has been in three confirmed relationships in addition to her new rumored romance with Nat Wolff—but she’s said she’s had more that were kept secret from the rest of the world.

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