Oakville couple earning more than $400,000 makes mortgage payments of $8,000 each month | Canada Voices

Name, age: Bobby, 36

Annual income: $220,600, including salary, bonuses and stocks

Debt: $500,000 on mortgage

Savings: $10,000 in savings account, $275,000 in tax-free savings account (TFSA), $550,000 inregistered retirement savings plan (RRSP), $33,000 in registered educationsavings plan (RESP)

What he does: Software development consultant

Where he lives: Oakville, Ont.

Top financial concerns: “A layoff for either of us, given the job market, would make it quite a challenge to make ends meet.”

Bobby and his wife bought their house in Oakville, Ont., an affluent corner of the Greater Toronto Area, during the pandemic, at a time when the real estate market was soaring.

They had just had their first child and were feeling cramped in a small condo in North York. They also wanted to be closer to both sets of their parents.

“We probably picked a pretty poor moment to buy housing,” says Bobby, a technology worker who makes more than $200,000. “Our baby was young, we wanted a place, and kept being outbid. As a result, our housing costs are a lot more than either of us would like.”

They paid $2.3-million for a four-bedroom, double-garage house that is about 3,000 square feet. The couple used equity from each of their condo sales, a total of almost $1-million, toward the purchase. At the time, their monthly mortgage payment was $10,000. “Saying that out loud is insane,” says Bobby. That number has since come down to $8,000, as they have aggressively paid down their mortgage.

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“My wife and I didn’t want to move into a so-called starter home and feel we’d have to move again and again as our kids get bigger,” said Bobby, whose two children are now four and one years old. “We went into one home we thought we could live in for 30 years.”

Bobby’s wife also works in tech and makes more than $200,000. Both are immigrants, who moved to Canada as children. Bobby says they also share financial values, including a drive to eliminate their debt as quickly as possible. They have about $500,000 left on their mortgage and plan to keep grinding until it’s gone.

Bobby says that focus is dictating their other financial decisions. He doesn’t buy much for himself, and most of his discretionary spending goes to activities for their four-year-old daughter.

“It keeps her engaged and healthy,” he says, adding that a weekly date night with his wife is a far-away dream right now. “When we clear our mortgage, I should take my wife out for a nice dinner.”

Considering the family’s high income, Bobby says it’s “strange” to feel financially pressed.

“We’re pretty conscious of not trying to keep up with our neighbours but it feels we can struggle sometimes,” he said. “I am not unaware of the privilege we’re in, and I struggle to understand how Canadian households are getting by.”

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His typical monthly expenses

Investment and savings: $3,672

$764 to work pension. “Defined contribution plan.”

$1,908 to employer stock purchase plan

$583 to TFSA. “Annual contribution at the beginning of the year.”

$417 to RESP. “$2,500 annually at the beginning of the year for each child to maximize compounding time and government grant.”

Servicing debt: $4,000

$4,000 to mortgage. “$8,000 a month, split between wife and I.”

Household and transportation: $1,746

$167 to property insurance

$742 to property tax

$120 to electricity

$50 to water bill

$75 to natural gas

$150 to gasoline

$167 to car insurance

$5 to car maintenance. “Do-it-yourself seasonal tire changes and oil changes.”

$160 on transit. “Downtown for work.”

$25 on Uber or taxis

$35 to cellphone

$50 to internet

Food and drink: $1,050

$700 on groceries. “We try to buy our food at discount chains like No Frills. Will go to nicer chains like Farm Boy for fruit that the kids consume.”

$350 on restaurants. “Oakville doesn’t have a ton of exciting food options, but it can be tough to make food on busy days.”

Miscellaneous: $5,792

$3,100 to income tax

$742 to Canada Pension Plan

$208 to Employment Insurance

$14 to streaming services. “Netflix, Disney+ and Amazon Prime in one bundle.”

$13 on clothing. “I’ll try to plan ahead for the future year to buy clearance items.”

$320 on sports. “Daughter enrolled in one to two activities a season. I’m in a city-sponsored men’s hockey league.”

$240 on after-school care

$100 for diapers and miscellaneous child expenses

$15 for haircuts. “$30 every two months.”

$833 for vacations. “We are saving for and budgeting for an Asia trip.”

$42 to donations

$125 on gifts. “It adds up with kids’ birthday parties.”

$40 to life insurance

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